Prom

This is much long overdue, but prom!! Finally being a "big kid" and getting to go to prom was almost surreal. You look forward to this for most of your life, and within the span of a few hours, it's over. Lucky for me though, I have one more night to dress up and feel like a modern day Cinderella.

shoes // hair 

Though prom is a whole ordeal the day of, there's a lot that goes into play much before hand. Here are few tips I learned from this year..

• Book your limo early!! It doesn't matter if it's January and your prom is in April. Go ahead and book that sucker, otherwise you'll be stuck with your parentals driving you to prom. Wouldn't that just be fun?

• Make reservations about 6-8 weeks out. This is a must. Odds are, prom is on a Saturday night, and no nice restaurant is going to have open seating for a group of 12. Pick a good restaurant (J. Alexanders, Brick Tops, Cheesecake Factory, Amerigos, the options are endless!) and make a reservation. If you're not exactly sure how many will be in your party, tell them more than you have confirmed. You can always call back and downsize your group, rather than trying to find new accommodations for a large group.

• Don't forget about after prom, either. After dancing the night away, you might be hungry and tired, so have an idea of where you're going and when you'll be getting there (for your parents' sake). My group went out for ice cream and then back to one of our houses to watch movies, aka sleep. If you choose the limo route, make sure your limo driver knows where to go. Our driver was quite clueless and we ended up having to find an alternate location to get ice cream at :/ 

• Get your dress and shoes early. By March, most stores are wearing thin on their formal wear options. Go early, and you'll have more dresses to choose from. This also gives you lots of time to get your dress fitted and hemmed, which it probably will need.

• Order a corsage! If you have a date, gently remind him the color of your dress and one or two accent colors that would complement it. If you don't have a date, order the  corsage yourself. Most girls forget this since it is traditionally the guy's role. As far as presenting it, ask a key male figure in your life (dad, brother, grandfather, etc.) to present it to you. My dad did mine. 

• Designate a photographer. This is one of the most overlooked ones, since the parents are all naturally going to have their shaky smart phones and digital cameras. While that's great and fine, make sure with each pose that it is clear what camera to look at. We got several pictures with wandering eyes since there was a mob of photographers in front of us.

• Book your hair and makeup appointment early on! The same idea as the limo, if you wait, they'll be all booked. 

• Coordinate with the other girls in your group! It can be pretty tough to organize pictures with two girls wearing the same dress-- been there. done that. 

• Bring a portable phone charger, if you have one. Between the snaps and the selfies, your poor phone battery is going to be draining all too quickly. I used mine when we got back in the limo after actual prom, and it was a life saver.

• Schedule a "practice session" with your hair and makeup stylist(s)! Go in and talk to them about what style you're looking for. Chances are, they'll conduct a "trial run" with you to customize themselves with your hair/skin, and in this time, take notes of what you like and don't like and how you'd like it to be altered for the real go around.

Prom's a night to remember!! Go have fun!! Make good choices and don't do anything stupid. 

Through pictures and memories, it'll be hard to forget your prom night.

If you want to see my pictures and get some ideas, feel free to check out ours. There are quite a few candids in here, if you know what I mean ;)

Set 1

Set 2

Set 3

xox,

Lauren

Blake Shelton presented by Gildan

I bought tickets to see Blake Shelton presented by Gildan in November, and the show was last Sunday so I've basically had these tickets for 6 months.

photo from: blakeshelton.com

I actually bought the tickets for Blake's opener, Chris Janson, rather than Blake...

but even with that, I was very happy with the show.

"135 pounds of skinny Williamson County white boy" opened the show and blew everyone away. This kid can play harmonica like nobody's business, and he makes it cool, too.

Chris' presence is one of a kind. Sorta quirky (awkward motions and dance moves) but every bit charismatic and adorable. He probably has my favorite stage presence out of everyone, to be honest. I could see him being the same off stage as he is on stage.

Not only is his presence great, but his voice is absolutely great, too. He can belt like no other. He hits those high notes and everyone cheers.

(fav picture from the night)

He sang his hits: Buy Me A Boat, Power of Positive Drinkin', Holdin' Her, etc. as well as some covers by the greats.

Chris delivered. 100%. No doubt.

He thrives off the energy of the audience yet spoon feeds it to them and plays to the rafters. Props to Blake for getting such a high quality opener, but not props to Blake for taking 48 minutes to take the stage :))

Literally. 48 minutes of waiting. It didn't even take the crew that long to set things up. My father, who used to tour, explained to me that the crew was done after about 20 minutes, when they sat down and chatted with those around them.

Once Mr. Ego took the stage, all became well again. He had to create his own energy, since everything Chris had brought up had simmered back down, but Blake did it.

He sang his hits and his classics (Baby, Austin, Who Are You When I'm Not Lookin, etc.) as well as his newer stuff (Mine Would Be You, Neon Light, etc.)

Blake's voice in person is niiiiiiice. I've always thought his voice was charismatic but in person, oh my goodness, it's like milk and honey.

The. Best.

Austin is personally one of my favorite country songs of all time. I LOVE that song. As Blake started into his "classics" portion of his show, I annoyed the stuffing out of my dad by not really whispering "Austin! Sing Austin! Come on!! Sing Austin!" and when he did, I was on cloud 9. 

Favorite song of the night. 

Blake's voice was just as excellent as his transitions. Sure, he does the same set, give or take a song or two, every night, but the transitions were wholeheartedly him. With a little profanity and effect of alcohol, Blake seemed right at home. He mocked a couple in the front row and just was a fun, crowd pleasing personality. 

Since it was a Saturday night, Daddio and I headed out after Austin, since we had to rise early for church on Sunday.

Blake really didn't fail to please during his set; it was before his set that was the most disappointing.

If Blake would fix his transition timing, I would totally see him again.

In the end, I got to spend time with my dad and see one of my favorite artists, so can I really complain?

Kacey Musgraves on the Rhinestone Revue

It is always a good thing when I get a phone call at the end of 4^th period with a 615 area code because that can only mean one thing: I won concert tickets.

This particular time, I happen to have forgotten that I even entered for these, but I was still excited when I found out I was seeing Kacey Musgraves at the Ryman on the Rhinestone Revue tour.

And it was every bit as spectacular as it sounds.

My mom and I do our best to keep up with ABC’s Nashville, so of course I was familiar with the talent of the first openers, Lennon and Maisy.

Being on "Nashville," they have filmed a few scenes on the legendary stage, so they did have a leg up on their successors, nerve wise.  They were as calm and collected as could be. With some help enhancing their stage presence, Lennon and Maisy could headline some big tours one day. Without a doubt.

From watching "Nashville," I knew they could sing, but after seeing them live, I can attest to Maisy’s unreal range and Lennon’s natural grit. They only sang a handful of songs, but their standouts were “Ain’t No Rest for the Wicked” and “Call Your Girlfriend.” Their cover of Cage the Elephant's “Ain’t No Rest for the Wicked” had the entire venue on their feet. Really. They got a standing ovation. They’re absolutely incredible.

Andrew Combs on the other hand...I wish I could say the same about the Hank Williams wannabe.

With a crooked hat and outlaw stage persona that I just don’t think matches his sweet, down home character off stage . As a musician, he was good for the first few songs, but they soon all sounded the same. Slower, indie vibes and the same chord progressions were all I got from him.

(His drummer did have a thing with his left foot that he would shake/tap it ridiculously fast regardless of what tempo the song was. It made his set more entertaining for sure.)

After a 30 minute set change, it was finally time for Miss Kacey Musgraves to take the stage.

Y’all. She is so ridiculously talented. It is absolutely absurd. Listening to her live in comparison to listening to her album, there is no difference. She is so true to her simple “Dime Store Cowgirl” sound and roots, both live and recorded. Between songs, she was sure to give the song’s background or thoughts about her nerves, boots, or personal trainer with her standard colorful vocabulary, giving her not only a better and more memorable stage presence than her openers, but also coming off as one of the most personal artists I’ve seen. I really love seeing artists for who they are, so for there to be no censor really earned some brownie points with me.

She sang her old hits, her new hits, and other people’s hits. Doing an acoustic rendition of “Merry Go Round,” a disco dancing performance of “Pageant Material,” and a jamming cover of TLC’s “No Scrubs” gave a different feel for every section of the concert.

Her “No Scrubs” cover was my favorite performance of the night (only second to her acoustic, tear inducing edition of “Merry Go Round,” of course).

Her stage décor was so perfect for the theme of small town pageants with streamers and a disco ball.

And yes, her band is wearing pink light up suits.

 The Rhinestone Revue was easily one of the most dazzling nights of the year (ha, pun totally intended) and reminded me that there’s still hope for me even if I’m not “Pageant Material.”

Stay sparkly,

Lauren

The Man With My Heart

As the celebrations for Father's Day come to an end, I got to thinking about I don't think I tell my dad how thankful I am for him.

I honestly can not think of the last time I told him how truly glad I am that he is my dad, and that fills my heart with guilt.

So for something that is long overdue, I'd like to introduce you to my dad.

Ever since I was little, I've call myself a daddy's girl. I'd run after his hand in parking lots and wait for him to sprinkle "pixie dust" on me before going to sleep. Everything he did, I wanted to do, and everything he liked, I wanted to like. From music to food to teams, if he did it, I wanted to do it, and he always willing let me tag along.

Though he is not always right, Daddy always gives me a new perspective and advice on anything I could need. A big decision about school or drama with friends, he always reminds me to take a step back, breathe deep, and remember the big picture. 

His words alone do no justice about the impact he has had on me. He's also been an example of what kind of man I need to look for, and he has also let me know that I'm not to settle for just anyone. Protecting, lighthearted, understanding, thoughtful, and encouraging come to mind of the first traits he has taught me. 

He's taught me how to love first and foremost though. I can't count the number of times I've become frustrated, left in a huff, and come back to his open arms, completely forgiven and accepted.

To give you a little insight on his life and where his white hairs come from, he grew up in Brentwood and roamed the same roads I do. In college, he got an internship at a sound company (that's a funny story actually) and later got signed with a sound company that did fairs and tours all across the country. For over 10 years, he toured with various artists and made them sound good to your ears. After marrying my mom, he toured a little more, but decided to leave the life of tour buses and monitors and come home for good about the time I was born.

After touring, he worked at Dell for a little bit, and eventually, he opened his own computer repair company. He also became a sheriff's deputy a few years ago, and absolutely loves it. He definitely has a heart for helping people, and I think he is where I get my love of helping from.

I also think I get my love of sports, country music, preparation and UT from him, and I know for a fact that I get my stubbornness from him.

 

If I were to describe him, I would call him cheesy, and intelligent. He's pretty good at "dad jokes" and always trying to find a new solution to a problem. He uses lots of common sense and every skill available to him. Many people have called him a "modern day MacGuyver" and that's very  rightfully so. He can make something out of nothing, and never ceases to amaze me.

He's awfully good at making things up on the spot, and I think one of my favorite memories was because of this. When I was little and wouldn't sleep, he would spray "pixie dust" on me and without any more resistance, I would be out, as shown below. I think the "pixie dust" also works on him because I swear he can fall asleep anywhere, any time.

We may but heads, but at the end of the day, he is one person I always can go to that I know will accept me with open arms. If I didn't have him as my dad, there is no way I would be who I am today. 

Thank you for all the time spent waiting in the car, afternoons on the golf course, hours listening (and critiquing) concerts. You are the best dad out there,

xoxo,

Lauren